Notes from Father’s Day 2013

safe_image.php_I hope you had a great Father’s Day weekend!

I thank God for my father: H.B. Charles Sr. My father died on Father’s Day weekend. And I used to find Father’s Day very painful. But I was filled with grateful memories this weekend. I only hope that I may become half the man and preacher my father was.

I am indescribably thankful for my three children – H.B. III, Natalie Marie, and Hailey Breanne – also known as, “The Terrorists.”

We had a fathers-sons breakfast Saturday morning at the Shiloh Church. It was a good time of fellowship among Christians brothers. I spoke on Psalm 128: “A Godly Man’s Life and Legacy.” 

In my Bible Study Fellowship class, I finished the lesson I started last week on “Practicing Biblical Eldership” (1 Timothy 5:17-25). God willing, I will begin chapter 6 next Sunday.

Grateful for the guests we had in worship. It is an encouraging sign that members are inviting guests to church.

9 new believers were baptized at Shiloh yesterday. Praise God!

I continued my study of Daniel with a message on chapter 8 called: “God Fights With No Hands.” 

This second half of Daniel is no joke. I am struggling through it. But I praise God that my congregation is pressing through it with me. I am glad to serve a church where preaching is “in season.”

Praise God for those who were added to the church yesterday.

I plan to preach Daniel 9 next Sunday: “Warfare Prayer.” 

Crystal and the kids did the right thing and took me out to get a big steak for Father’s Day!

So the Miami Heat decided to mess up my Father’s Day by losing to the Spurs. Can anyone explain to me why the Heat seem unable to win back-to-back games?

My hometown team – the Los Angeles Clippers – are making moves! Doc Rivers and Kevin Garnett? Possibly moving Blake Griffin to the Lakers for Dwight Howard? If none of these deals work out, I still give the Clippers an A for effort.

Confession: I did not watch one minute of the US Open. Not one minute. Did I miss anything?

How was your Father’s Day weekend? How did you teams do this past week? Join the conversation in the comments section.

Two Great Reasons to Preach the Bible

In my pulpit I preach from the Bible for two reasons. First, I am not smart enough to preach anything else. If I were to preach on social issues, there are sociologists in my congregation who would know far more about them than I. If I were to preach on political issues, there are politicians who would know more than I do in that field. Second, I am too smart to preach anything else because I know that God blesses his Word and it will not return void. – O.S. Hawkins, Jonah: Meeting the God of the Second Chance, p. 90

GUEST POST: Don’t Waste Your Youth Ministry!

Cameron Triggs '13The following is a guest post by Cameron Triggs, Pastor of Youth and Young Adults at the Shiloh Metropolitan Baptist Church in Jacksonville, FL.

“Well done my good and faithful party planner.”

That is one phrase I am positive Jesus will not say to Youth Pastors at the culmination of human history. I am also sure that no genuine Youth Pastor worth a slice of pizza wants to hear those words. Still the pressure to entertain is inevitable in youth ministry. It does not matter if it is a room of six faithful “church kids” or an auditorium full of unbelieving students; the temptation is to tell funny jokes, present silly stories, and play dodge ball.  That may get giggles and smiles from your students but it will not cut it before our Lord and Judge Jesus Christ.

Don’t get me wrong; there is nothing wrong with having fun. Yes, there is a time for that. In fact, plenty of time.  Yet a simple glimpse through the world of youth ministry suggest few of us need to hear that. However, there is something wrong when “fun” has become our preoccupation and gauge for fruitful ministry.

Dear Youth Pastors, we are not activity directors for a Disney cruise ship; we are drill-sergeants and compassionate recruiters for the battleship known as the Church.  We are pastors not party planners. When we get that confused we waste our youth ministry. Do you really want to waste your youth ministry?

If so, follow these ten steps…

 10 Ways to Waste Your Youth Ministry

1.    Don’t Pray- A wise man once said “It Happens After Prayer”. I think that is biblical.  We do our ministry an injustice when we focus on strategies and tactics instead of the power of prayer.

2.   Don’t Preach- Funny jokes and video illustrations aside, your youth need a pastor who preaches the word unashamedly and unapologetically. Before you give yourself to social media and social outings give yourself to prayer and the preaching of God’s Word (Acts 6:4).

3.    Don’t Disciple- Jesus Christ’s last commission is our primary mission (Matthew 28:18-20; Acts 1:8). Strive to teach and equip students to image Christ in their community and church. Show what Jesus did. Teach what Jesus did. Repeat what Jesus did.

4.    Don’t Associate- Isolated coals cool off quickly. The lone wolf eats lone sheep. You need to have other brothers in the ministry who do what you do and feel what you feel. Gain ideas, get encouraged, and most of all maintain accountability (Eccl. 4:9-12).

5.    Don’t Go Home- I’d rather have my house in order than be a household name. So what if you’re the next Doug Fields?! None of that matters if you have a lonely wife and disengaged children. If you can’t manage home you can’t manage ministry (1 Timothy 3:5). That’s Bible. Get out the office and go home.

6.    Don’t be Accessible- Are you approachable? Can the youth come and talk to you? Be there for your youth. Make it easy for them to access you. It is during those brief moments of accessibility that you truly gain authority to speak into the life of this generation. Listening to youth demonstrates that you love them. To youth, Listen = Love.

7.    Don’t Delegate- You cannot do it all by yourself. Get help to free you from administrative task so you can serve faithfully as a pastor.

8.    Don’t Infiltrate- We are called to be witnesses to the ends of the earth (Acts 1:8). But let’s be honest. Sometimes in ministry we can stay in the upper room. Many times our ministry tactics are asking the fish to jump in our boats. Instead, lets go fishing. We need to be where the students are. SCHOOL. Serve as a volunteer, coach, mentor, or simply visit a student for lunch.

9.    Don’t Integrate- Call for the older men and women to disciple down to your youth. Create a culture of cross-generational discipleship not merely age segregated programs (Titus 2:1-6).

10. Don’t Live it Out- Right believing should produce right living. Practice what you preach (James 1:22) & keep a close watch over your lifestyle. Your lifestyle will be the most prominent messages preached to the youth on a daily basis. Watch over that and your doctrine and your youth ministry will not be wasted (1 Timothy 4:16).

Brothers, we are not party planners. Brothers, we are not babysitters. Brothers, we are pastors. Please let that calling impress a serious devotion to make disciples in this generation. War has been waged for the heart and devotion of this generation. We need to respond to the pressures of pastoring instead of the pressures to perform. Have fun, plan joyous activities, and do it again. Yet, never feel pressure that you are the pastoral “class-clown”. You are a pastor who will have to answer to Almighty God on how you guided his precious little sheep. Pray. Preach. Disciple. But never waste your youth ministry.

Hope to See You at the 2013 E.K. Bailey Preaching Conference

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I am looking forward to the 2013 E.K. Bailey Preaching Conference in Dallas, July 8-11.

This conference was the vision of the late, E.K. Bailey, founding pastor of the Concord Church. Dr. Bailey is the “godfather” of expository preaching among African Americans. Outside of Dr. A. Louis Patterson, Jr., I do not know of any Black pastor/preacher that has pointed more brothers toward Bible exposition than Dr. Bailey.

2carterThe Bailey Conference is now in the capable hands of Pastor Bryan L Carter, who also leads Concord. Under Carter’s capable leadership, the Concord Church is alive and well, and so is this important conference. Bryan Carter is a friend and peer for whom I have the utmost respect. I am proud of all that the Lord is doing in and through him.

There are a lot of conferences on preaching these days. But the Bailey Conference has stood out among African American preachers for its emphasis on Bible exposition. The principles of exposition are taught in this conference and some of the strong preaching voices model it.

This year’s conference will focus on preaching the different genres of scripture. Scripture has different types of literature – history, poetry, proverbs, parables, prophecy, epistles, etc.

Faithful preaching requires that a pastor expose his congregation to these various types of scripture. But care and precision is required in handling the various genres.

During the conference, there will be classes that will help the attendees leave with material to get them started to do consecutive exposition through a particular book or genre. For instance, I am scheduled to teach four sessions on preaching through the Epistle of Philippians. I will introduce the book, overview its contents, and give suggestions for preaching through it, along with general preaching tips.

I am especially excited about the guest speakers this year. One of my preaching heroes, Ralph Douglas West, will preach and teach. So will Robert Smith of Beeson Divinity School and Kevin Smith of Southern Seminary. Steven J. Lawson, one of the best expository preachers in the country, will speak. Other speakers include Bryan Loritts, William Curtis, & E. Dewey Smith.

My biblical convictions have been shaped by the teaching of John F. MacArthur Jr., more than any other man. Having preached through the entire New Testament (and well on his way to completing commentaries on the entire New Testament), MacArthur is rightly the most respected Bible expositor of our time. Since I have followed Dr. MacArthur’s ministry, I have not known him to speak a predominantly African American conference like this. Yet the influence of his commentaries is wide in our circles. So I am honored to have him speak at this conference and looking forward to his contribution.

Each year, the Bailey Conference honors a “Living Legend” from the Black preaching fraternity. This year, the conference will honor Jasper Williams, Jr. Williams is known for his “whooping,” the melodic way he concludes his sermons. But that is not the feature of his preaching. However, he has truly influenced many by his biblical focus, narrative style, note-free delivery, clear and creative messages. It is right that we say thank you to Pastor Williams for his faithfulness down through the years.

Another preaching “legend,” Donald L. Parsons is scheduled to speak at this year’s Living Legends Luncheon.

This should be a great meeting. And I pray that it will be fruitful for all the attendees.

Please pray that the Lord will raise up even more men who are totally committed to rightly handling the word of truth!

Saturday Shout-Outs: Radio, RAAN, & Ministry Links

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H.B. Charles Jr.: Summer Vacation for Fulltime Christians

Pick up my new book, It Happens After Prayer.

I started doing radio interviews for the book this week. This is new for me. But I am grateful for the opportunities.

The 2013 E.K. Bailey Preaching Conference is fast approaching. Hope to see you there.

Check out Thriving Summit Conference hosted by Eric Mason. And pick up his new book, Manhood Restored.

Sign up for the Expositors Summit at Southern Seminary.

Enter the Reformed African American Network’s sweepstakes for a chance to win several books for free, including It Happens After Prayer for.

Douglas Moo: Commentary as a Ministry 

Thabiti Anyabwile: Everything I Know About Pastoral Ministry I Learned Riding with Pastors 

Mike Lumpkin How Our Elders and Deacons Work Together 

Sam Rainer: A Critical (Often Overlooked) Trait of an Excellent Worship Pastor 

Cameron Cole: 6 Things We Need to Learn from Youth About Preaching 

Kevin DeYoung: No Whiners

Aaron MeniKoff: Ten Questions to Ask of a Song’s Lyrics

C. Michael Patton: Twenty Urban Legends in Theology 

Jared C. Wilson: 1 Corinthians 13: Sobering When Put This Way 

Ron Edmondson: 7 Most Exciting Things a Pastor Experiences 

Life and death and eternity and worlds unknown may hang on the preaching and hearing of one sermon. – Charles Haddon Spurgeon

Do you have any shout-outs? Have you read something this week worth sharing? Join the conversation in the comments section.  

Summer Vacation for Fulltime Christians

Calendar - Vacation Day CircledSummer is a needed time of rest and relaxation for many people. This break from the various responsibilities of home, work, or school is a good thing. However, there is no such thing as a vacation, leave-of-absence, or sabbatical from your responsibilities as a follower of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Jesus told his disciples, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while” (Mark 6:31). This call also applies to present-day disciples. Even though your life in Christ is supernatural; it’s not superhuman. If you do not ever come apart, you will eventually fall apart.

All of us need times of rest, relaxation, and rejuvenation. But remember that Christ’s call to his disciples to come away was a call to go with him to rest, not to go without him. So vacate… with Christ.

Here are several practical ways you can vacate with Christ.

Be marked present in corporate worship on the Lord’s Day. I urge you to make every effort to find a Christ-centered, Bible-believing church to worship God on the Lord’s Day, wherever you are. As you have made plans for food, lodging, entertainment, and the other things that may be important to you, make plans for corporate worship. You found a hotel to stay in. Find a church to go to. Be marked present on the Lord’s Day. Hebrews 10:24-25 says, “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near.”

Don’t rob God. If you work hard, save wisely, and plan prayerfully, you have every right to enjoy your times of vacation. But Proverbs 3:9 exhorts: “Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce.” Your vacation should not become an excuse to dishonor God with your finances. Avoid putting yourself in debt for the sake of a few days of recreation. Enjoy yourself, but stay within your means. And continue to financially support the ongoing work of the church. Remember that the ministry of the church goes on while you are on vacation. So don’t rob God. And don’t rob yourself by wasting your resources and missing your opportunity to make spiritual investments.

Use your extra time on some things that have eternal significance. Your vacation time is a great time to get some rest, enjoy your favorite hobbies, catch up on personal reading, try some new adventure, or just hang out with family and friends. All of these things have their place. But how often have you said that you would pray more or read the word of God more if you just had the time? How often have you though, felt, or said that you would do something for the Lord if you just had the time? Well, your vacation is an opportunity to serve the Lord. No, you don’t have to spend all your time doing ministry. But are you willing to spend any of your time doing ministry? Paul exhorts, “Look carefully then how you walk not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the will of the Lord is” (Eph. 5:15-17).

Enjoy yourself. That’s an order. Have a good time on your vacation. Enjoy the Lord’s goodness to you. Don’t feel guilty about it. And don’t let other people lay a guilt trip on you. God is not against your enjoyment of personal pleasure. 1 Timothy 6:17 tells us that God “richly provides us with everything to enjoy.” God is the ultimate source of every good and perfect gift (James 1:17). God is the one that gives life and breath and all things (Acts 17:25).

Friend, God is not some cosmic-killjoy, set on stopping everyone from having a good time. The Lord is not against pleasure. But he is against those who are lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God (2 Timothy 3:4). So enjoy the blessings of the Lord, the graces of life, the fruit of your labor, the opportunity to travel, and the company of family and friends. But make sure you keep pleasure in its place. Or as 1 Corinthians 10:31 says, “So, then, whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

Learn about Jesus!

So learn about Jesus! Follow the sacred counsel of Ezekiel and eat the scroll. Learn about Jesus for His word is a lamp unto our feet (or for our present moments) and a light unto our paths (that is, for our future) amidst moral blackouts and human power failures. Learn about Jesus for what a tragic mindset in the church that many will go here and there to be bigger, better teachers, lawyers, doctors, but when it comes to Christian education, many choose to be mental moral midgets, spiritual shrimps and shorties, religious runts, whose inner growth is stunted by the bread of mediocrity served frequently at churches who are ecclesiastical fast-food houses, selling a Burger King religious of “having it your own way,” devoid of devotion, while seasoned with mostly commotion and emotion, while the souls of men starve, asking, “Where is the beef?” or “Where is the meaning, the purpose, and the practical definitions of the faith?” – Asriel G. McLain, Words from My Workshop, p. 146

Total-Life Stewardship

iStock_000016962400XSmallThe bottom line of Christian stewardship can be succinctly summarized in four words: God owns it all! The psalmist rightfully audited God’s assets: “The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof, the world and those who dwell therein” (Psalm 24:1).

Everything we possess is a grace gift from God that we must manage faithfully. Paul explained, “For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, so that each one may receive what is due for what he has done in the body, whether good or evil” (2 Cor. 5:10).

Mark it down: stewardship is about much more than tithes and offerings. It involves every facet of life. Ultimately, there is no discipleship where there is no stewardship. Jesus asked, “Why do you call me ‘Lord, Lord,’ and not do what I tell you?” (Luke 6:46)

Consider these seven areas of total-life stewardship and strive to submit to the Lordship of Christ in every area of your life.

The Stewardship Of Your Time. Time is life. We live our lives confined to the passing moments of our brief time on this earth. And that time passes really fast. So it is vital that we make the most of every opportunity. This doesn’t happen through time-management techniques or timesaving technologies. It only happens as a result of a high view of God. Isn’t it interesting that Jesus was never in a hurry, but he always had the time to do God’s will? In contrast, we are always in a hurry and rarely have time to do God’s will. We need to learn how to pray with Moses: “So teach us to number our days that we may get a heart of wisdom” (Ps. 90:12).

The Stewardship Of Your Relationships. Did you know that your relationships are a gift from God? I know that it may not seem that way with some of the people you have to deal with. But it’s true. Even difficult people are providentially placed in your life for your sanctification. The fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23) is cultivated in the soil of relationships. You are only responsible for your role in your relationships. And to do this faithfully, you must focus on your character and the other person’s needs, not vice versa.

The Stewardship Of Your Finances. Many people think their problems would be solved if they had more money. And they fail to realize that the key issue with God is not how much they have, but what they do with what they have. Jesus says, “One who is faithful in a very little is also faithful in much, and the one who is dishonest in a very little is also dishonest in much. If then you have not been faithful in the unrighteous wealth, who will entrust to you the true riches? And if you have not been faithful in that which is another’s, who will give you that which is your own? No servant can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money”(Luke 16:10-13).

The Stewardship Of Your Body. Paul exhorted the Corinthians, “Or do you not know that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body” (1 Cor. 6:19-20). How can we become good stewards of our bodies? First, strive for health. But, moreover, strive for holiness. Paul advised Timothy to “train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come” (1 Tim. 4:7b-8).

The Stewardship Of Your Speech. Words are powerful. It has been said that words are like nitroglycerin: they can either blow up bridges or heal hearts. No wonder God places such a premium on the words we speak. Jesus said, “I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak” (Matt. 12:36). And Paul admonished, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (Eph. 4:29).

The Stewardship Of Your Gifts. The NT doesn’t say anything about how to discover one’s spiritual gifts. But it is clear about two things: (1) every Christian has received at least one spiritual gift; and (2) we are accountable to God for the proper use of those gifts. Peter instructs,  ”As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace: whoever speaks, as one who speaks oracles of God; whoever serves, as one who serves by the strength that God supplies – in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen” (1 Pet. 4:10-11).

The Stewardship Of Your Witness. Howard Hendricks said that many Christians are like bad photographs: overexposed and underdeveloped. But Christ calls us to be the salt of the earth and the light of the world to the glory of God (Matt. 5:13-16). So we must guard our witness. Paul writes, “This is how one should regard us, as servants of Christ and stewards of the mysteries of God. Moreover, it is required of stewards that they be found trustworthy” (1 Cor. 4:1-2).

May you one day hear the Lord Jesus say, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Notes from Sunday – 06/02/13

safe_image.php_It was a really long weekend. Saturday, I led our Kingdom Man Bible class, led our prayer meeting, and then taught our New Members Class. Still recovering.

We extended the right-hand-of-fellowship to our new members Sunday morning.

We celebrated the Lord’s Table in both worship services.

It was nice to meet several of our guests in worship today. I am glad to have friends who recommend our church to their members who are visiting Jacksonville.

Our Bible Study Fellowship groups began their summer semester. I resumed my class a lesson on the importance of studying the word with other believers. I really missed my class. Next week I plan to get back to 1 Timothy.

I preached Daniel 7: “God Wins!”

As the sermon title indicates, I did not try to interpret all the intricate details of Daniel’s vision. I focused instead on the big picture of the text.

Daniel 7 is the most important chapter in Daniel. Scribes called it the most important chapter in the Old Testament.

I summarized the Daniel’s vision in three movements:

  1.  The four Beasts rise.
  2. The Ancient of Days sits.
  3. The Son of Man comes.

Praise God for those who were saved and added to the church today!

Sunday afternoon, we hosted the Jean Ribault Senior High School baccalaureate service. I was honored to give the keynote.

Afterwards, Crystal bought me a cherry lime-aid from Sonics. I don’t remember much after that.

So the NBA Eastern Conference Finals will be decided in a game 7. I am concerned about the Heat. But I think they will pull it out at home.

After 19 seasons in the NBA, Grant Hill announced his retirement this weekend.Who knows how great his career would have been were not for his injuries.

I am now starting to pay attention to baseball season.

Serena Williams has reached the semifinals of the French Open. I do not thing she is getting proper credit for the remarkable winning streak she is on.

Floyd Mayweather Jr. agreed to fight Canelo Alvarez in September. It will be Mayweather’s toughest fight ever. Looking forward to it.

How was your Sunday? How did your teams do this weekend? Join the conversation in the comment section. 

Praying for the Lord’s Day

O Lord,

We commune with thee every day,

but week days are worldly days,

and secular concerns reduce heavenly impressions.

We bless thee therefore for the day sacred

to our souls

when we can wait upon thee and be refreshed;

We thank thee for the institutions of religion

by use of which we draw near to thee

and thou to us;

We rejoice in another Lord’s Day

when we call off our minds from the cares

of the world

and attend upon thee without distraction;

Let our retirement be devout,

our conversation edifying,

our reading pious,

our hearing profitable,

that our souls may be quickened and elevated.

We are going to the house of prayer,

pour upon us the spirit of grace and supplication;

We are going to the house of praise,

awaken in us every grateful and cheerful emotion;

We are going to the house of instruction,

give testimony to the Word preached,

and glorify it in the hearts of all who hear;

may it enlighten the ignorant,

awaken the careless, reclaim the wandering,

establish the weak, comfort the feeble-minded,

make ready a people for their Lord.

 

Be a sanctuary to all who cannot come,

Forget not those who never come,

And do thou bestow upon us

benevolence towards our dependants,

forgiveness towards our enemies,

peaceableness towards our neighbors,

openness towards our fellow-Christians.

 

The Valley of Vision, p. 378-79

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